Free Sex: The story about a girl

Thursday, August 6, 2009
Free sex! Zina! Fornification!
Words that sounded very disgusting, but yet, to some it just sounded like a title of a song.
Why did I came with the title today?
Well, it's because of the forum that i've just attended entitled 'Free Sex' organized by the PMI Legenda.

Many info that have been shared, here is just some that I've found in the internet about the case statistic involving the implication of free sex;
  • The statistic from the Ministry of Women's development shows that there are an average of four women is beng raped every day.
  • Seven women are victim of sexual harassment and 100 children are being abused every day.
  • Rape cases have doubled from 2,341 cases in 2006 compared to 1,217 cases in 2001.
  • 2,121 cases of domestic violence were reported in 2006
  • 65 case of abandoned babies in 2000, increased to 83 case in 2007
  • From a survey conducted in a university, only 10 % of couples didn't engaged in sex
Sick isn't it..
And that was in 2006 and 2007, What if I get the statistic for 2009...
With the news in the paper flocking with rape reports everyday!
Wouldn't it gonna be increased.. doubled... I hope it would not get tripled....
The signs have clearly shows it about thousands time... but still... this is happening...

Anyway, I don't think I have to put one more article about the implication of free sex as there are loads of them in the internet that you can simply find!

i hope this would be a reminder for me and dear readers that I would post from time to time. Though I would really want to share with you guys a story about a girl.

The story about a girl


The girl that i mentioned was actually my friend, we were in the same group in orientation.
Who is that girl? i would like to keep it a secret.. (afterall, I have trouble remembering names)
Me, her and my other friends always hang out together but Not to the extent on doing something ridiculous. Though i still think that it was a stupid idea and lots of time wasted back then. Taubat aku..

Time goes by and we were still in contact, until there's come a boy. To make it simple, they have become a couple. I was surprised, really surprised, totally surprised!
Why?
Because if you look at that boy, you'll feel like you are going to puke. You know what I mean.. I am not jealous. Just that I am a bit dissapointed. To me all girls are like my daughter... hahaha

Whats made me more dissapointed at that time is like we were no longer friends. She was like no longer herself, her reflection have changed and it really scares me. It was like as if she was really crazy about that guy. At that time I knew something was wrong...

As time goes on, I noticed that she wasn't in the college anymore. Why? I don't know...
Then the boy got a new girlfriend... The end

Moral:
Be careful not to get involved with such relationship...
Furthermore, if you are in a relationship...
Have you told about him/her to your parents?
Have you get permission from them?

As Bukhari reports in the hadith: "Young men, those of you who can support a wife should marry, for it keeps you from looking at women (lit., lowers your gaze) and preserves your chastity; but those who cannot should fast, for it is a means of cooling sexual passion."

So If we don't have the money to get married.. It's clearly says that we should fast to cool down our sexual passion.. What a great thing Islam have teaches us..

20 comments, 페이스:

MuhD NoR AzyM said...

Agree with that..should tell her parents..hehe

Farah Adila said...

girls is like ur daughter? haha~
yup, all girls must be more and more careful nowadays.huhu

lizz said...

hehehe.then, me too??saya anak perempuan kamu??wahaha. *jahat woo.kikiki

yeah, actually..its normal thing. itu kelemahan wanita. asal ada yg ungkapkan kata2 sayang..cair:P padahal...hmm

SasHa Lee said...

Ayah, saya bercouple ngn si pulan tue...im ur daugther rite..
hehehe;)

Just_najmiE said...

errr, I'm ur daughter?.. aren't u too young to be my dad?.. hehehe..

this topic is interesting.. I have some girl friends who I know for a fact, that have lost their virginity.. sometimes I wonder how and why they gave up something so important to their boyfriends.. they already lost their honour, and my respect for them.. eh, tp kan, they are so cocky and sombong, budget hot lah diri dah tak suci dan tak bermaruah.. aiyohh, sometimes I don't understand my own gender..

but then again, everyone is different, right?.. the most important thing is we need to take care of ourself first.. kan?.. (^^,)

Just_najmiE said...

omg, panjangnya my comment.. so sorry.. hehehe.. (^^,)

naqiubex said...

Hunh.. Don't worry Najmie.. I like reading comments.. especially the long one..

Azym.. you should..

Oh yeah.. tell your mother also sasha..

Just like the movie godfather farah and lizz..

♥ sOFIa ♥ said...

i already told my mom.

hee :)

°šYąňáĐyą° said...

um betol2.tk yah kawin jep

Nazra~ said...

oh hi sweet daddy

^_^

yaziith su anaz said...

alhamdulillah im a muslim.


:)

naqiubex said...

Everybody: ;)

SuFy said...

hurm, nice one...betul tu naqiubex, skrg ni byk sgt nilai moral jatuh esp gadis yg hilang dara..etc..for me, sal story tu..rasanya lelaki trlalu bijak berkata2 smpai pompuan mudah sgt jatuh hati dn sayang..dan sy pon pernah alami benda yg sama..tp syukur Allah tunjukkan jalan bagi sy sblm berlaku perkara yg x diingini..hurm..

Zaidah Sikun said...

very interesting entry.. :)

keadaan skarang mmg sgt2 menakutkn + menyedihkan. Pergaulan & seks bebas, mengandung luar nikah, buang anak smua tu mcm dh jd perkara biasa aje bg sstgh org.

Mungkin sbb didikan agama yg tak ckp ataupn iman sendiri yg lemah... godaan syaitan, nafsu dll.

~ Berdoa sgt2 smoga Allah kuatkn iman kita smua.. *Amiin.. *

blakepaghe said...

bagus...banyak pelajaran boleh dapat hari ini....(nasihat untuk diri sendiri)

DilOt said...

yeah...sudah bg tau mak ngan abah...=)

miko_chan06 said...

aaaaa...die kene ubat guna guna! XD

Silverleaf said...

selamat la aku tadak adek pompuan.....susah betoi nak jaga zaman skg ni.....

Captain said...

free sex is not rape. the title of the forum is wrong. rape is far from free sex. it's abuse!

theBluesman said...

what has become of our people these days, the colleges are getting very permissive, free sex abound, those sexual statistics are based on reports, what about those that go unreported due to the social stigma attaching to such sexual abuses...

the learning of jawi was done away with in our educational system sometimes in the mid sixties. Nobody did bother about that then but now after 40 over years we can see the moral decline among many people of today, many of these people couldn't read jawi at all and so how to read the quran and other religious matters, many aren't praying or many even do not know how to perform the daily prayers....scary the worst is yet to come, just watch...

the story about the unfortunate girl, i believe there are many more similar ones and rest assured that there will be more in the future.

so what can we do, spread the good word around, start caring and help around to make things right.....it's always a tough road to walk on but we must persevere!