Free Sex: The story about a girl

Free sex! Zina! Fornification!
Words that sounded very disgusting, but yet, to some it just sounded like a title of a song.
Why did I came with the title today?
Well, it's because of the forum that i've just attended entitled 'Free Sex' organized by the PMI Legenda.

Many info that have been shared, here is just some that I've found in the internet about the case statistic involving the implication of free sex;

• The statistic from the Ministry of Women's development shows that there are an average of four women is beng raped every day.
• Seven women are victim of sexual harassment and 100 children are being abused every day.
• Rape cases have doubled from 2,341 cases in 2006 compared to 1,217 cases in 2001.
• 2,121 cases of domestic violence were reported in 2006
• 65 case of abandoned babies in 2000, increased to 83 case in 2007
• From a survey conducted in a university, only 10 % of couples didn't engaged in sex
  

Sick isn't it..
And that was in 2006 and 2007, What if I get the statistic for 2009...
With the news in the paper flocking with rape reports everyday!
Wouldn't it gonna be increased.. doubled... I hope it would not get tripled....
The signs have clearly shows it about thousands time... but still... this is happening...

Anyway, I don't think I have to put one more article about the implication of free sex as there are loads of them in the internet that you can simply find!

i hope this would be a reminder for me and dear readers that I would post from time to time. Though I would really want to share with you guys a story about a girl.

The story about a girl


The girl that i mentioned was actually my friend, we were in the same group in orientation.
Who is that girl? i would like to keep it a secret.. (afterall, I have trouble remembering names)
Me, her and my other friends always hang out together but Not to the extent on doing something ridiculous. Though i still think that it was a stupid idea and lots of time wasted back then. Taubat aku..

Time goes by and we were still in contact, until there's come a boy. To make it simple, they have become a couple. I was surprised, really surprised, totally surprised!
Why?
Because if you look at that boy, you'll feel like you are going to puke. You know what I mean.. I am not jealous. Just that I am a bit dissapointed. To me all girls are like my daughter... hahaha

Whats made me more dissapointed at that time is like we were no longer friends. She was like no longer herself, her reflection have changed and it really scares me. It was like as if she was really crazy about that guy. At that time I knew something was wrong...

As time goes on, I noticed that she wasn't in the college anymore. Why? I don't know...
Then the boy got a new girlfriend... The end

Moral:
Be careful not to get involved with such relationship...
Furthermore, if you are in a relationship...
Have you told about him/her to your parents?
Have you get permission from them?

As Bukhari reports in the hadith: "Young men, those of you who can support a wife should marry, for it keeps you from looking at women (lit., lowers your gaze) and preserves your chastity; but those who cannot should fast, for it is a means of cooling sexual passion."

So If we don't have the money to get married.. It's clearly says that we should fast to cool down our sexual passion.. What a great thing Islam have teaches us..

Special Childrens Home: Rumah Tunas Sinar Harapan, Seremban

After visiting the orphanage in Kuala Pilah, the second chapter of the Legenda Education Group Charity event brought us to the Special Kids Home of Rumah Tunas Taman Sinar Harapan in Seremban.

Rumah Tunas Sinar Harapan Tengku Ampun Najihah

I have a little problem in finding where is exactly the location of this place because i was sleeping on my way here. It is actually an easy place to find as it is located just besides the road and they have such a noticable boardsign and a very large building that is really easy to be spotted. As usual, you will need to fulfill some procedures before you can visit this place.



This facility is home to about 70 kids effected by autism spectrum disorder (ASD) and down syndrome (DS). Here, they will be given training and education especially helping them to accomplish daily tasks in life.

Arriving there.. 10 am

We are being greeted by a young lady that apparently acting as our tour guide around the place. She explains to us about 'Rumah Tunas Harapan' on how they operated throughout the country. The 'Rumah Tunas Harapan' in Seremban is specialized for taking care of children aged under 14 years old. After that age, the children will be transfered to another facility depending on their skills and IQ. This is because the services and programs are likely to differ from one facility to another.

Tour around the facility

First we are being brought to a room where from my knowledge is actually the place where the children will learn new things. I saw a couple of 'kompangs' there and a few toys giving me a view on what they are doing there.


In some cases, the children will be having problems in walking or also standing up straight. Therefore, the staff will brought them here and try to help them to undergo trainings so they will be able to do it properly as possible. This is crucial for them to be able to engage in everyday task easier.

After a little chit chat with the workers there, we are then brought to the dorm where this kids live in.

Oh.. Did i mention that we are not allowed to take any pictures here?
Cameras aren't allowed in here cause it might disturb their emotion.

The dorms is where the childrens are, from fourteen years old to small babies.
Wait.... babies? I am talking about the newborn... Yup! Don't be surprised...
They said child that is effected by DS can be detected even before the child is born.

As I walk in to one of the dorm, I was shocked that I was hugged by a very cute little girl. She hugged everyone and everyone hugged her back.

Colouring

After the tour, we are going back to the hall to go on with our next activity.... Colouring..
it was a very fun moment especially when we have to try to fulfill the child's need. I remembered this one kid who orders me around to do work for him.

the boy :Hold my candy
me: ok!
the boy :Put my candy bag over the chair there..
me: hm? Ok! (putting the bag of candy and came back to the boy)
the boy: I need a candy
me: Ha? ok (take a candy from the bag and gave it to the boy)


and it continues on... until...


and finally... tada... their very own artwork..


Poco poco dance

Now wait a minute!!
The kids are better than us!!!
The children are teaching me how to dance... hahahahaha

As I walk around the hall, I found the answer on why they are so good in dancing.
There is a Disco in the house.............................

Image via Wikipedia

The Snoezelen therapy room
It is no a disco.. of course. You can click at the title for the purpose of the room.

You can also check the snoezelen room in action at youtube. Just click it

Oh.. and actually I don't know how to put video from youtube in the posting.. hehehe..
Anyone can help me?
















I hope I will come back there again..........

Moral:

There is a lot of things that we can learn from doing charity. Especially when going to visits like this and volunteer ourselves to help those who are in need.

I remembered about a story of a young boy who wanted a new pair of snickers.
Influenced by the trend, all of his friends have already bought and wear the new snickers that have just been released in the market. Feeling that he is the only person in the class that still stick to his old shoe. He urges her mother to buy him a new pair of shoes. The mother agreed on fulfilling her son's wish, so they went to the shop to buy the snickers. Upon entering the shop, the boy saw an old guy. He found that the old guy didn't have any legs. The boy felt sorry for the old guy. His mother then calls him to try the snickers that were on sale. The boy then hugged his mother and told her that he is fine with the shoes that he already have.

Don't envy on what people have.
Savour on what you already have.

Orphanage: Rumah Tunas Sinar Harapan Seri Menanti

I have just participated in the Legenda Education Group latest event which is the Charity Programme. The activities that have been lined up is for this noble effort is...... doing charitable things of course.... You know...

One of those charitable work that i am really damn excited about is visiting the orphanage and the special kids home. I have long awaited for this since I've entered the college. I felt really sad as it have been a long time since I ever volunteered to do this kinda stuff.

Where is Rumah Tunas Sinar Harapan Seri Menanti?

Well actually I don't remember it pretty well. From what i know, the place is located in Kuala Pilah. I've tried to find some information about that place in google but unfortunately I couldn't find any good websites related to the place.

Some procedures might be needed..

Arriving at the orphanage

We are welcomed by a couple of small kids and an old makcik who might be one of the staff working there. Everybody was roundup as our very own Amy gives us a short brief about minding our attitude there.
Don't ask questions that would disturb their feelings, bla bla bla...
To shorten it all is... Don't be stupid...

Ice breaking

Then we have ice breaking... I teamed up with this guys... The SAMPAT CREW!!... SAMPAT?
Sounds like something delicious to eat right..


The boy besides me is called Fami (blue shirt) . I really liked this boy because we share the same passion. Yeah, the passion of drawing.
He said to me at the end of the day that his artwork will be introduced in a TV show.
Which one I don't know...
i guess i have to just watch all the tv show...
i really wanted to contact this boy but I don't have a cellphone right now.. eish...

Poncho poncho dance..


i thought i will never do this again after the National Service. At least the kids are having fun though... Our team sucks at doing this... hahahaha

Harta Qarun: Finding the hidden treasure..

Another weird game... I hope nobody gonna use the leftover flour to bake a cake...



Balloon War
The rule of this game is simple, pop the balloon and you're OUT!

3 seconds after the game start and POOOOOOOPS... I'm out...
The guy besides me is the culprit... after he looks at my mafia face then he just succumbed under my strong hands... hahahaha.. just kidding...


The poisoned chair.. Is this the name of the game?


The game where you have to start moving when the music started and sit when the music ends. The one who don't get the seat would loose. This will continue until we find out who have the last seat. Wow, i wrote about this like you guys don't know about this game... werr...

The group presentation

Now I know what I have to do this small kid. I am gonna let him be the cat...


once upon a time there was this three friends called Ali, Along and Alang. They formed up a team that was called LALANG. The Lalang gangsters than wanted to play, so they played a game of Lat tali lat tali PELAMPONG. As they were playing, they heard a horrendous sound.


"Meaw" they heard.
They were horrified to see a cat wearing a green t-shirt is stucked on a very high tree that wears a red blue shirt.
So they asked the chainsaw man to cut up the tree....

The chainsaw man than turned on his wooden chainsaw and cut up the trees like we never gonna saw in the movie called "the Chainsaw massaccre"
"Poops!! " the cat went down... Killing the innocent tree...

THE END

Look at all the critics gonna say...

Pisang Emas

Oh we are so pumped up!

But not pumped enough! Look at this kid who have been influenced by watching WWE too much.


The ending Ceremony

Guess you guys waited for my tears to come out right.. Well guess not! Though this is our face after the winner were announced!

HAHAHA! just kidding!
Everyone wins!
I wonder what am I looking at this time. Don't come to any weird assumptions..

Moral:

Our beloved Rasulullah SAW said

"Do not belittle even the smallest act of kindness, even if it were no more than meeting your brother with a smiling and cheerful face" (Muslim)

Even a smile...
Even a smile...
Isn't it so simple to be kind...

But yet we always avoid this simple opportunity everytime...
Think yourselves...

NEXT post would be about the visit to the special kids home

The Children who can't be Adults

When I was the president of the student council, I always hang out at the Students affair department. Because of my regularities in the office, i've always mistaken to be a worker there. There was time when the Nepalist Guard will salute me as I am entering the college.. Its kinda tickles me as they do that.. But not anymore... I still remembered that when the Rector, Dr Kamis comes to the Students Affair Department, I will flee from the office to avoid from seeing his face. He said to me "the office is place for staffs only.. Students are not allowed to go in and out freely... bla bla bla".
I got the point, It was my fault..

Anyway, my life as a student's council sometimes exposes me to the students cases. Though we are not suppose to know, but my eyes and ears just can't shut myself up from knowing the crimes commited by the students. Don't be shock, crime like stealing, adultery, gangsterisme are quite common in youths nowadays. Almost every college have the same problems.... You ask yourself.. why does this happen...

Its always came to my ear about students who are caught for close proximity (khalwat). Whether boys are caught in the girls hostel room or otherwise. You know what are they doing right.. that is why this blog is only for 18 years old and older. Id say keep on reading even if you are still a highschool student... this might be a bit of reminder for you guys.

Back to the topic, In islam, it is stated in "don't come near to fornification..." 17:32. However, youth nowadays don't want to listen. They just kept on being tricked by lust saying that this is LOVE...
Many youth are confused whether they do this for love or for lust.
Either way, because of a night of happiness, suffer for a lifetime....

We are being bombarded with cases that involves youth or teenagers about child abortion and abandoned babies. This is what happen when we are doing something without even thinking the consequences. When an adolescent unmarried girl is test positive for pregnancy, the choice that they have is to do an abortion which in other word killing the innocent baby or just get on with it and being a mother at young age. Which the mother will be going through a very hard life, many of them will have to drop ut of school and finds a job to support her baby. Her son or daughter will also facing a very hard time in their life. Probably being called a 'bastard' or whatsoever in their school.

On the other hand, many impregnant girl will found themselves humiliated and embarassed to face anyone. Because of this, the innocent babies will likely be abandoned. Sadly, some of the babies were dumped in the most disgusting places. There is cases where babies were found bitten by stray animals. If you don't have the guts, don't click!!

I just don't get it, if they don't want to keep the baby. Why don't they just put the babies to somewhere better.. at least try taking them to an adoption centre.. Jeez..

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the latest artwork...

My eyes hurt doing this... hahaha... takes me about three hours to do this.......

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Moral: To unmarried couples out there, it would be harsh if i say stop your relationship isn't it?.. So I would like to say.. control your feeling whether you are a female or male... think about what will happen.. think about the abandoned child... think about them who have suffered...

How to control your feeling? Find out yourselves.. my hands is hurting right now.. I typed too much....